Being new to the BB, I am trying my best to catch up on the conversations. It is much like walking in on a group of close friends' conversation of whom you know not a one or their histories. (Infact it is not LIKE that it IS that. )

Here are a few questions:

Who is Schnarch? Where can I find out more about differentiation and enmeshment? I have read several realationship books over the past several years and may have come across these concepts but simply can't recall them.

What the hell does FOO mean? I could not find anything in the acronym thread to explain this one.