Thanks, Neely, your kind words are much appreciated.

I think W will be ok, too. Not real sure how SBT her new C is, I may need to nudge some things in a direction concerning this part. Old C was, W really likes her, so it may not take a big push to get going in this direction.

One killer homework thing old C had us doing was taking that "Don't sweat the small stuff" book, and having us read it out loud to other. We can then discuss how we feel about what was written, how it applies to us, what we can learn from it, etc. Good way to learn about stuff, and each other. Opens up some good communication. W likes it, and it seems to be a very SBT oriented assignment.

I think you're right about avoiding the on-the-edge talks. Falls right into that self-fulfilling prophecey category, very powerful. BTW, this was another area discussed in that book, and was a pretty eye-opening realization for W.

Thanks again. Will write later about my C session this morning. Still kinda absorbing it!



JJ

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