You need to show her with your actions that she does not have you gut hooked. If she feels this is true, she will be able to jerk you around as she pleases.
***************************************** I really didn't want her to go, she could feel the vibes, but I didn't tell her NOT to go. The choice was hers. ******************************************* This is the work of a controller. Gotta stop this crap!
I think you should try a little dimmness on her. Start going out yourself. Start getting a life that does not revolve around her.
When she pulls this crap, I would not call her at all. I don't care how worried I am at this point. Even if you had to wait for days to hear from her. Then I might wait another day or 2 before calling her back. Distance JJ, Distance!
You have more work to do on you anyway and you just made me realize I have some to do on me as well.
