Just got a call from W, I let it go to v-mail. "Hi, I'm home. Heard you were busy calling everybody last night. Well, give me a call." As she was hanging up, heard step-D in the background saying "that wasn't a very nice thing...." Click.

Decided I'm going to wait a couple of hours to call her back, let her know what time the movie starts, and tell her she can meet me there if she wants to go. It'll be up to her. We'll take it from there.

The positive thing is I'm glad she's ok. This is quite a relief to me. It'll be much, much easier for me to think things through now. I was very, very worried.

P.S. She just called back (20 minutes later), apologized, said she didn't mean to worry me or make me mad. She thought I was going to bed anyway. She a big girl, she can take care of herself.

Should I not have worried? Or be concerned? Is the alien peaking it's head out again, or am I just trying to be controlling, and need to WAY detach some more?


[This message has been edited by Jamesjohn (edited 06-03-2001).]


JJ

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