JJ, You knew she is still confused. Stop looking in her F###ing journal. You should see what I wrote in mine. You are in a one day at a time mode right now so stop trying to plan the future. Let go of it for now.
Do not push the joint sessions. Let them happen when the time is right. If W is still a mess, they will appear to be an attack to your W.
You posted that there have been lots of good things going on. Don't be surprised that W is confused about the good times as well as the not so good times. Revel in the good times for yourself. Let her see that you are enjoying life.
Your punishment for snooping is??????
Lets see???????
Scotch!
Lots of it!
Single Malt!
Very Cold!
and a good friend to lend you a shoulder.
Don't get so caught up in W that you forget about you.
Kent
[This message has been edited by KentS (edited 05-29-2001).]