JJ,
It's that overwelming majority view that relationships should not be hard work. They should just happen.

I have this view that there are three types of married couples.

Those that work to make their relationships better.

Those that think relationships just happen and are going through divorce.

Those that are ignorant and are about to get a rude awakening.

Guess that explains the 50% D rate. The sad note is that it takes only one ignoramous to allow a marriage to fail to the point of D.

Keep it up JJ. The realizations will keep coming.

Kent