One thing I can say regarding Cobra's post. Yes men and women can be friends but while yes, it may be quite possible for you Cally to have this friendship without any sexual thoughts at all, I doubt this is true for many men. Whether we act on it or not, we think about what it would be like to sleep with our female friends. I submit this is almost universal in the male universe. We know it of ourselves and we know it of other men. Therefore, when you talk of your interactions with this man that is interested in you, your H is thinking about what this man is thinking about you and probably doing a slow burn. Does that make sense? Do my ideas on this make me a neanderthal?
Gone the carvings and those who left their mark. Gone the kings and queens, now only the rats hold sway.
