I guess if I wanted a sincere reaction from my husband but one that was loving I would buy hima gift or do something nice.

I am just confused as to what the heck kind of sincere reaction would he expect by me finding condoms. Maybe he wanted my reaction to be to walk away so he wouldn't have to. I don't want to short change him. In the back of my mind I know it is possible. I just know how secretive my husband can be when he wants to. This was just blatant and out there way to easily for me to find. It is almost like he wanted to send a signal or a message. I know it has to throw him for a loop that I don't initiate or talk about sex at all. It is a complete 180 from the person I use to be.