LFL

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Have you ever thought that maybe your H is looking for some sort of emotional response from you?





He could be. But why not just say it. I would be willing to try and meet my husbands needs. But he never states what his needs are. Why try to anger someone or hurt them in this way. If he wantd something or of something was bothering him then he should say so.


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Are you telling me you are truly not angry after what you found out?




See I know it is possible and am keeping eyes and ears open. But in my heart I guess I don't believe he is having an affair. Part of me believes he wouldn't have the confidence to.


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You guys seem to be lacking intimacy more than anything else.




For 9-10 years he was the LD. Now I am. I never thought I could ever be LD. It has even been a month and in the past I would have gone crazy. But it is the furthest thing from my mind.