Quote: Certainly most of us present the situation in a light favorable to ourselves because it is human nature to believe in our own good intentions
Why yes I am sure maybe we do. But I think I have said this many times on here that I am working on me. Because I do admit I have had many mistakes or behaviors that needed to change. I would also love it if my husband got on here.
I did write my husband a letter and told him I felt he was wrong. I told him he could try to justify it all he wanted to but it would never make it right or okay. I told him I felt something was going on with him that I didn't understand. I told him if he wants to walk away then it will be all on him. That I wouldn't do that. I am commited to trying to make this marriage work. I told him I would pray for him and our family. I explained my lack of a sex drive as best I could. I told him the next step would have to be from him. I would just silently love him. If he needed me I am only an arms lenght away. I said much more in it in detail. But that day he seemed like he didn't feel well. He acted nicely towards me and when he left for work he gave me a kiss. Today he made a comment about possibly seeing a doctor. He said maybe I need some Valium. I didn't say anything. Tonight he left for work and was kind of like hesitating and made a comment like twice that he was leaving. Almost like he wanted me to come and give him a kiss. I just can't bring myself to do that. I just can't.
I didn't say anything. Tonight he left for work and was kind of like hesitating and made a comment like twice that he was leaving. Almost like he wanted me to come and give him a kiss. I just can't bring myself to do that. 
