I know many here probably disagree with this. But I think a woman has every right to have friends whether it be male or female. Just because you are of the opposite sex doesn't mean that you have to be sexual. Some of the best friends I ever had growing up were male. I never thought about being sexual, never wanted to be sexual and never was sexual with any of them. They were just really great friends.
I have never cheated on my husband. Never even came close to it. So I think you are right Baltoman. This is on him and he has nobody to blame but himself if he violates our vows. He will have to live with that shame. I told him that to in a letter.