Certainly most of us present the situation in a light favorable to ourselves because it is human nature to believe in our own good intentions. It is almost just as certain that all of us have contributed in many ways to the situation we are in. Hell, I'd love for my W to get on this BB and present her side as it would help present a clearer picture to everyone including myself. That being said when you suggested that the affair (if it is that) was a consequence of her previous behavior it appeared to have the flavor of justification. We are at a disadvantage in that we cannot see each others' tone or body language in the words we write so we can only comment on the content rather than the intent. I just feel that even if you are ultimately correct in your assessment, the day after a discovery of such significance is not the time to wield the 2x4. Just a difference of styles, I guess.
Gone the carvings and those who left their mark. Gone the kings and queens, now only the rats hold sway.
