I do not mean to blame Cally for her H having the affair. That is his decision and he is wrong to do so. But I think Cally had a lot to do with contributing to this mess to begin with. Those issues are still out there and her H probably feels completely justified in what he is doing, whether that be right or wrong.
Like HoneyPot said, there are a lot of games being played here and at the moment I see Cally as presenting only one side of the issue, which generates responses biased toward that veiw and helps perpetuate the game.
