Just checking on you. Happy Anniversary! Way to go. Like me, you understand now that happiness is a gift you give yourself and hanging on to the past junk is no good. It only hurts you more.
Have you read Relationship Rescue? Dr. Phil says you either contribute to or contaminate your relationship. I think about that everyday before I say or do something. It helps.
Hope you're out celebrating!
Violet
P.S. I would also like to thank Kent. He replies to so many on the BB and reaches out to help so many of us. Kent, thank you. You're creating good kharma and may you reap some benefits!