BB, That really touches my soul. I stayed on the BB to pay a debt I owed. You just made me realized that it has been paid. I wanted to help one person see what I see, the way GBON helped me.
I'm glad you are celebrating #10. My seventh is coming up in about2 months.
Life will get easier for you once you get used to the new way of thinking. Marriage takes maintenance just like a car or a house.