Nothing new here - just checking in before a potentially interesting weekend. H's graduation is this weekend even though he's been out of school since last August. That means his "friend" will be around when we go to Nashville for the weekend. She actually comes in town tomorrow - and I am curious to see if she will call or something.
I know neither he nor I can control what she does, and H said that the friendship he thought he wanted to continue is even not important to him - my insistence that he end all of it was the major factor in him not doing it sooner(or so he says) - but it will be interesting to see what transpires this weekend. I don't plan to bring her up at all - this is a 180 for me. If we see her, I will be smiling and looking HOT!!
I know I must at some point let go of her - even her existence. I will begin that process this weekend as that will be the last time I ever HAVE to be in the same state she is. I will go and have a great time being the wife that H bragged about to all of his school friends - yes EVEN her!! After bragging about that - he is the one who looks foolish for almost losing me! I will be wearing that thought - not with malice - just with the knowledge of how marvelous I am and how lucky he is that he knows it!!
