Ladies, *************************************** He may never be able to tell me what I feel I need to know so I know I have to let go of it. ***************************************
You all know this to be true, so stop obsessing about it. Start looking at these thoughts as your problem, cus they are. I have been waiting for the answers for better than 7 months now. I am only curious now because I recognize that W is working to make things better. This is more than she ever did in our relationship. This is what is important. The past no longer brings me pain. Istill have thoughts about it, but more as a reflective thought on what I learned. Push yourself in that direction.
I used to obsess about this same stuff. It only stopped when I started treating the obsession as a serious problem. I delt with it daily for weeks. Then I dealt with it weekly for months. Now I don't deal with it at all. It's gone.
Don't sit around waiting for the next lie. Decide how you will deal with it when it smacks you in the face and move on. Let go of the worry. You are wasting your life and limiting your ability to be happy.
It's sunny, warm and everything is turning green in Illinois. The beauty of living is in the fact that everything is constantly changing. Don't fight the change, go with it.
