Eva, I don't have any real advice. While my H isn't doing what your H is doing, I am having to accept that I didn't know him as well as I thought. Many of us are going through that realization. I used to never consider my H a liar in any way shape or form. Now that I know he has lied to me, it hurts horribly. That trust is going to be one of the hardest things to rebuild, whether with him or with someone else. My H has lied to me about his "girlfriend" and it took a point blank confrontation to get him to admit that he had slept with her. He claims it happened only once, but I don't know how I will ever believe that. That is the hardest part, especially while we are trying to reconcile-- or at least I am. As I said, I don't have any advice for you, but wanted to send some positive thoughts your way and some cyberhugs.
