C2H, i have read a couple of books. i have read "hope for the separated" and "when the vow breaks" and also "the 5 love languages: how to express heartfelt commitment to your mate". they are all wonderful books.
i do believe that seeds are being sown. we went to church yesterday together. the sermon was excellent, "getting ready for church". he talked about doing 3 things: 1. do a head check (mind set) 2. do a heart check 3. do a HIS check very powerful message. W was reading along and got to a verse that talks about D. she didn't realize that when someone actually divorces and marries another that they are both committing adultery. i am glad that she saw that. i really don't know how much she is paying attention to the daily devotions. she is usually putting her makeup on while i am the one reading. i can only trust that the Lord is talking with her and that she become obedient to His word. this weekend was good. no problems. she actually opened up to me on friday about OM2. he started to smother her and become obsessive. she told him to stop. i think that she is still talking, but there is nothing that i can do but pray.
thank you for the prayers. she has filed the papers by mail, praying that they get lost by the post office.