Thanks...the last part of your quote reminded me of Matthew...I have always held this particular verse with me and has been a source of great strength for me:
"Ask, and it will be given you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you."
it also reminds me of the beginning of this chapter...and I have to keep reminding myself that I am not here to judge my H (or anyone else for that matter)..