God has put this on my heart for whoever may read it today.

Matthew 6:5-6
When you pray, do not be like the hypocrites! They love to stand up and pray in the houses of worship and on the street corners, so that everyone will see them. I assure you, they have already been paid in full. But when you pray, go to your room, close the door, and pray to your Father, who is unseen. And your Father, who sees what you do in private, will reward you.

i don't believe that showing your H the affirmation is actually necessary. ask the Lord to impress it upon his heart of the changes that you are making. our WAS's already know how we feel and how committed that we are to them. that is what makes them feel as though we are needy. let the Lord finish the work that He has started.

i hope that i have encouraged you.

God bless,
trent