i actually received a package from this ministry the day after i told my W that i was through. this was after she told me about PA#2. the package had a tape in it that was titled "why stand?". i knew that i needed to physically detach, but emotionally and spiritually, i continued to stand. about a week later, she asked if we could work things out. we tried, she quit after 2 days. i still continue to stand even though the outcome looks worse than it did before. after she told me that she didn't want to work things out again, i gave her the tape and hoped that she understood it. she listened to it, but said that she really didn't follow it and that it was too slow. i understood it loud and clear. in the beginning, i created a loose-leaf binder with all my references in it. i put the standers affirmation on the outside in the front. she has seen it, but not really said anything about it. she wants me to let go, but God keeps telling me to stand. i believe that is the only reason that i found that site. nobody referred me to it, i just happened upon it. i felt that God let this happen so that i could reach out to others and be empathetic with their situations. i have also added myself to their pray24 list. they are radical about standing for the marriages around the world.
i don't think that your husband would actually take it personally. if he is a Christian, then he should take it personally. my W says that she is a Christian, but will not follow what the Lord is telling her. she is looking for her own happiness. i pray that she finds it, but i also pray that she turns to the Lord for complete healing.
