I have a question about the Standers Affirmation...
Have any of you given this to your spouse that cheated? I am considering asking my H to read it-so he knows where I am trying to come from he understands the committment I have to my marriage-even tho he may think I am becomming withdrawn by turning my feelings inward.
But I am afraid that the third paragraph will upset him and make him feel that I am pointing fingers at him, calling him filthy (even tho cheating is filthy)...
Thoughts? Anyone shared this with thier unfaithful spouse?
I am not sure my H is ready for this...I am not sure I am ready for him to see it...
