Somewhere on one of these boards, I found a reference to the work John Gottman.
He's a relationship therapist/researcher. Checkout his site http://www.gottman.com/ I just finished his latest book "The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work", and found it one of the top 3 books I've read since beginning my strange journey. I would love to have my W read it and work through it with me. But, she's still too busy trying to convince me we need a divorce to even consider why we don't.
