Thanks ALTL! I have read your postings and admire your courage and strength. My H was involved with OW for only a few months. I don't think I could have fought for him much longer.
After seeing our consellor yesterday my H now realizes that it was wrong to keep in touch with OW via e-mail. He says I am the most imortant person in the world to him and that he has no desire to contact her again. He is very attentive these days. It feels so good to finally have closure. I was so worried that I had "opened a can of worms" and that we'd regress. But as the counsellor put it .... if there hadn't been a "can of worms" in the first place none of this would have happened.
