Quote: Although I should have a beginners mind on this, I just know from history that she doesn't see personal growth or exploration of issues as a viable option.
Well, actually, to give my W some credit, she has probably done more "personal growth" than I have on her own. It's just the getting help part that she balks on.
OT suggested that I may not really know what W thinks about this and I am willing to admit this but like I said, out of defensivness or whatever, she persists on saying it so I will accept that and move on.
