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as recently as an hour ago she made comments about how she couldn't believe I would actually want to post to this site and how silly she thought it was.




Again, another area where your W and mine are similar. My W is definitely opposed to any counseling at all....despite recognizing that she does have issues, she is just dead set against anything of the sort at this point. Funny too, she mentioned all my books and this website, telling me that I spend too much time doing both. I guess for her, self-exploration is out of the picture for the time being. Although I should have a beginners mind on this, I just know from history that she doesn't see personal growth or exploration of issues as a viable option.


"Achieve success, but without vanity; Achieve success, but without aggression; Achieve success, but without gain; Achieve success, but without force." Lao Tzu