Point taken, and as much as I want to be wrong, as recently as an hour ago she made comments about how she couldn't believe I would actually want to post to this site and how silly she thought it was. Of course, I think that's just her way of expressing her being uncomfortable but still, it's a negative view and a continuation of her negative view she's had all along.
I WILL drop my idea that I KNOW how she feels since she may not really know how she feels herself.