Re LLs... It is also important to learn to feel the love the other person is giving you in their own LL...
Anyway, your post to NM made me want to ask if you often allow your choices to be governed by some kind of perceived emotional fragility or drama of W's?
A less empowered way of putting this question would be, do you often feel as though your W controls your choices by being excessively emotionally fragile and/or volatile, prone to drama...?