Hi GH, Well your long posts are always good posts, so thanks for sharing. I want you to know that I actually think you did really well yesterday. You have self-assessed in less than 24 hours, and in fact, on the very same day you were able to let it go and have a great day at Disneyland. Somehow I think the old GH would have punished W and himself a bit longer... Pickled himself in the ugly juice. Instead you pulled it together, had fun for the remainder of the day. Everyone has bad days, everyone is human. What matters is what you did and what you learned. All good news GH.
I am glad you are going with your W tomorrow to the lawyer's. If the lawyer is a good lawyer and you trust him/her, go with a combination of your intuition and his/her advice. The lawyer will know the local trends and typical consequences of the choices are, and how best to work the system. My thoughts will be with you for a positive outcome.
PositivelyListening ************************************** When one door of happiness closes, another one opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us. - Helen Keller