Oh, I am not wondering if I shoud go, I know I should. I am really asking about fighting these things versus no contest.
As for me going, she knows I have take a LOT of time off lately for her sake and so she didn't really ask me to go. She did mention that she wishes there was some way I could go to which I said nothing. I wanted to see if I could and when I found that I could, I told her. She was tenative because again, she KNOWS it is a big deal for me to take more time off work but when I assured her it was ok, she was VERY appreciative. This is something I feel I need to do for our family's sake because there are big decisions to be made, that will impact us all and she wants me to be involved in helping her make those decisions. It will be a stressful, but all-in-all, good thing.
