GH, I'm not too familiar with the DUI sitch....I'm assuming that it stemmed from her fog days of the A and stuff? Which is why you've been staying out?
If she asked you to go tomorrow, go for support. Be what she needs tomorrow....as you have already pointed out, it's rough facing something like that, knowing that you got lost but made a lot of pricey mistakes in the process, things so out of character for yourself (meaning W). It's gotta be embarrassing, etc....the fact she wants you there means she trusts your opinion, etc. That means a lot.
You've been quite compassionate, understanding and patient, and I have no doubt you will be the same tomorrow.
