Hi GH, first time reading about yr situation and think you are a very understanding and loving H. I am writing to ask for yr advise cause I am like yr W, you have read mine...I had a 2nd A and I am so lost. I read about were usually man going astray hardly about women, you as a man please tell me how you feel?
My H wants D, I know its the easy way out for both of us rather then to face the problem. GH, what is making you working hard on your marriage despite your wife's action. Please enlighten me from a man's point of view.
I am sure your W is also filled with guilt, remorse and confused. As a women's point of view she is also afraid that you may reject her one day or feel angry. But from what i read you are very patient and understanding. Women needs alot of attention and little sweet stuff, listen to her more you will know what she needs and give the right things.