First of all, he can simply care about her well-being. Are you trying to evoke hatred in him? Hope, not -- why increase the amount of eveil in the world? People can understand that their relationship was not right or was right but only for a moment, and still retain good feelings, after the passion dies. And it's always better to have good feelings and kindness to those who you shared good moments with.
YEs, accept it -- they had good moments, and it's much better that he has good memories than hatred in his heart. Do youwant to be with someone who can carry evil inside? Probably not.
And people lie not because they are bad or cowards -- very often we lie to save someone we love from unnecessary harm, when we don't want them to be hurt by something they can't understand about us.
I know very well how impossible it is to remain calm in such a situation. That's why I am saying it: it is very likely that it means nothing for you. What matters -- his trust, respect and feeling for you, that's all.
