Aw shucks, you're welcome. Somehow a "Thank you NYS" thread has broken out here...and you semi-oldtimers know what I am talking about here
Well, THANK YOU to all of you as well. I guess part of why I am around here, first and formost is because I really need help with my sitch and this is the best place I have seen to get that help. Secondly, I genuinely enjoy helping people if I can and in the attempt to help YOU, I help ME flesh out some ideas banging around in my head. I think one of the things that really drew me to this site in the first place was the quality of the people here and the almost total lack of aggression on the part of most of the posters (contrary to other sites who's basic premise, especially concerning infidelity is to say "f-you b-tch, get out" or "grow a pair"). Even someone like OT these days or in the past, NYS, who posts the truth, and nothing but the cold, often hard truth, comes across as anything but abrasive or aggressive when you take her posts in total and in context.
It's that way people here get hard on you when they have to and back off when needed that works for me. I have almost never felt "jumped on" or "smacked" when I didn't deserve it OR more importantly, when I couldn't handle it.
So, thank you all. I just try to post when I can, where I can and hope something I say helps somebody.
