Found out today that my husband is still in touch with Ow via email. (It has been 6 months since he came home and vowed never to get in touch with her again.) I sent her an email telling her I forgave them both and that my H and are doing very well. She was very nice and then informed me that she does not appreciate him sending her emails. He is out of town and when I confronted him on the phone he was apologetic and very taken aback that he had been caught once again with his hand in the cookie jar. What do I do now? I was beginning to trust him again and I had a renewed love for him. I feel betrayed again. When I asked him if he loved her he said no. Then I asked him why he did it and he said he was crazy and that he needed someone to talk to. This is a man with many friends and relatives .... all in his email address book. Another sleeping pill tonight. What next? Help me please.