Seriously, your H is telling you all the same things my W is telling me, and so far, so good. Just reel in your impatience and try to understand that this is a process for him too, one he is probably trying to get through on his own, without great people like we have here to help him. Think about it, how long would it have taken you to figure out "what to do" in certain situations if you couldn't read and post here? I know I own most everything to this place and I have to think that we shouldn't discount the huge advantage WE have in all this because of the vast resource this sight has been for us.
I guess we give them time...too bad we can't "give" them something like this site, or the books we've read. I think they just have to go at their own pace and so long as that pace is going in the right direction, I think we just go with the flow.
