Dee and RB, thanks for your posts. Actually, I have the book somewhere but I have not gotten very far in it. I will go back to it after PM.
As for what you, RB, describe as some of what that author talks about in the book, and was posted by dee, I think that is really good stuff but for me, it will just take some practice. I am not that guy yet. I don't know if I will ever really be because it just isn't my personality but I KNOW I can do "better" than I have been and I WANT to learn so I should be able to grow into the best "man" I can be. I know personality can be a trap and that we can always change. I just feel like I am pretty happy with who I am with a few modifications and it's in those modifications, really just letting myself EXPERIENCE life with my W instead of trying to control it, that I believe my greatest potential success will be.
For all I post about this stuff, I am really trying not to over think it. I need to do a LOT more DOING and less thinking...I think.
Again, thanks guys. I WILL keep reading and hopefully someday, I'll actually get it.
