GH, what deezee is saying is the same stuff that David Cunningham pushes at his website www.makingherhappy.com. I bought his book, and it's got a few great ideas, but you can basically get everything in the book for free just by reading the archives of his daily emails. It's all about creating attraction in your W for you by being a real man, and I think he's right. I've had the chance to use a couple of his ideas and I think they've had an impact in my sitch.
The LORD is near to all who call on him, to all who call on him in truth." (Psalm 145:18)