Quote: It may have been an EA, it may have been a PA. But, certainly she could be that good of a liar. Though, it would be more about her being in denial about herself than being fine with lying to you.
Don't set yourself up to crash and burn later in any case by making these invisible tests that she either passes or doesn't...
OT, thanks for that. I don't THINK I am. I actually thought late last night, and again this morning, that her "stupid night" WAS an admission of PA and I was totally unaffected. I didn't get upset, I just couldn't help but see the overwhelming positives in what is happening. I think this time, I am truly ready to hear her if she needs to talk, or NOT hear her if she doesn't. I know what I said sounded like a test, and I guess it was, but I should have just left it at "I'm ready to leave the past in the past if she is" and move on.
Quote: It is great that she is being playful. I certainly HOPE you see her flirting as encouragement...
BIG time. She has NEVER been very playful but then again, neither have I. It's been a HUGE void in our life. I see that now. Sex and intimacy was always SO serious. Now I see that there is a whole other level(s) we never even explored.
