Thank you HH. I know my sitch is 1000% better than it was and remembering that makes days like today much easier to cope with. Thanks for reminding me.
The book is Passionate Marriage by Schnarch. I am about 50 pages in and really don't have a great feel for where it's going but so far it's a really good read. Quite different from what I have been reading all along because it deals directly, and explicitly about sex and how it relates to marriage and vise versa. I will give more book reports as I get deeper into it. I know a LOT of people here swear by this book, and OT has told me like a million times to get it for my sitch so I have no doubt it will be VERY helpful.
