Quote: ..."need to take charge". I really wish I knew what that meant.
I get the same directions from people in my RL. I am as confused as you, GH, taking charge seems good in theory, but I feel she would kill me, especially right now. You are much further along on the reconciliation trail than I. I hope to move along on the reconciliation with patience, love, kindness and a huge dose of DBing.
Quote: I know I am just frustrated and for a couple different reasons. First, because my sitch seems to be moving slowly....
You are doing great. You and your sitch are truly an inspiration to those of us who have not had the great fortune to have ventured as for as you. Keep on keepin' on. You are an inspiration to me.
Quote: I am going today, without fail, to get that book if they have it at my B&N.
What is the title of that PM book?
You appear to have come a LOOONG way. Continue to be patient and work on yourself. I know that reading your posts help me a great deal. I truly value you insights. Take care, keep your chin up, keep fighting the good fight, brother.