GH - A couple more - is she comfortable with you seeing her undressed to the degree (or close) that you did in the past? How about seeing YOU step out of the shower? Does she remark on how you smell - cologne, soap, anything? I've found that to be a big trigger with almost all women - when they notice and mention it, it's not "casual". I think RB has a point too - you aren't her best friend, you're her husband, and being a little playful/teasing can break the ice. People are so tense in these situations that you can both REALLY want to and still not - it's tough. In a more mild situation in the past, following a fight, how did you make up? Passionately, or by the Nike plan (just do it, then the ice was broken)? You aren't TOTALLY the same people, but you're close... Good luck...
