Quote: I don't mean these to be "tricks", just a way of checking the water before jumping in - you're right to go slow, even though it's hard [difficult a better term? ].
Yes, I know what you mean, and that is really interesting stuff to think about.
To make this a little quiz...
Lingering in your embrace: She lingers longer now than she did a month ago, or really a year ago but still not as long as I'd like. She also sometimes makes little noises to communicate she likes it more than she used to.
Moves her body under your hands: Hmmmm, not much. She is pretty still most of the time. I do get this though and now that you bring it up, I realize that I already knew this and was looking for it. One of the surest signs my W used to want ML was her movments and such. I knew when she was still that it was just going to be a back rub or hug and that's about it. I wonder if I ever really KNEW this or if I just realized it?
Thanks for the advice. I will keep those things in mind.
