RB, that was kinda my thought. Knowing my W, it would not go a day without her asking me why I was in a bad mood or something. She would take it as punishment (go figure, then I guess I have been punished our entire marriage) if I for some reason stopped my touching her.
Anyway, like I said, my thougts too. I think some combination of talking to her and taking some action is the right plan. I will keep thinking about it.