Si seniorita. I think that's going to be my approach but ONLY if it seems like it's still timely. I think where I really missed the boat on this is not just being direct with her this morning. I don't want to revisit it just to get back into the argument. I want to have a constructive talk with her and like I said, bringing in up 12 hours later MAY be more of the "holding it in" that I always do. I COULD very easily just asked her straight up (I was not emotional so didn't need to cool down or anything) what was going on this morning but instead I chose to hold it in and in turn, got defensive over NOTHING, i.e. a stuck seat belt... that somehow turned to represent everything evil in the known universe for about 15 minutes, lol.

I may just want to let this one go and make DAMN sure that I just speak my mind AT THE TIME the next time something like this happens instead of all the angry stuff stemming from not doing so.

It will either be another lesson learned or a good talk tonight (and it WILL be good no matter how SHE reacts because I will be direct and honest) I don't know which yet.

GH


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