OT, I am right there with you. That is what I planed on doing tonight. I really think I also need to come out and tell her that I will need these kind of reasurances from time to time, which I don't THINK she will react badly to but I am not really concerned about her reaction.
I did't tell you another thing that would have led you quicker to the conclusion that I was correct in my suspicions. I had to work last night (VERY unusual but unavoidable) and didn't get home until around 12:30am. When I got home she gave me a big hug and seemed in a good mood. We talked about how well S6's birthday party (it was yesterday) went and how good the weekend was. We hugged several times and then I went up to bed around 1:30. She came up soon after but after she got ready for bed, she asked me if I wanted water or anything since she was going back down. I said no thanks. She ended up staying up for another hour listening to her iPod and doing who-knows-what. I went down to check on her at one point and she just said she was fine and would be up soon. It was pretty strange. When she finally did come to bed, she only said she didn't feel well (i.e. she drank too much) and fell asleep. It's almost unheard of for her NOT to talk to me if there is something on her mind that late. It's when all our worst convo's have happened yet she still manages to start them at that time. I was braced for it, but it never came so I just chalked it up to a long, stressful (but fun too) weekend of lots of family, friends and party planning...that was until this morning happened and made me revist last night and wonder what may have been up with her.
To be fair, she had been calling me while I was at work saying that her sister had talked to her about some things that upset her but she said she was just going to "not let it get to her" with real conviction so I believed she was fine. Maybe she really wasn't and for some reason didn't want to talk more about it. Who freaking knows.
OT, again, you're right, I think I need some open communication here, at least from my side and see where things go.
