General update on us Posted this latest chapter here and there on this site and here's the latest wrap up: H has female friend that I've been feeling uncomfortable about. We've had some VERY intense discussions about this. After about a month of working on this issue we have come up with agreements that allow me to feel safe and allow him to feel free. I think that what has helped the most is that through this he started to understand that I need a pretty hefty dose of affection and appreciation and somehow (I'm not sure how this has happened) I have managed to inspire this. What a great topic for dialog. Think we'll both answer the question: What have I done lately that has helped you to feel better about us? Bet that will generate a lot of positive reinforcement for both of us!
