Glad for the positive steps for you and your wife. You are an inspiration of level-headedness and patience. The book sounds quite interesting--think I'll look at it in the book store. Hope you see why it touched your wife and can support her also in whatever that turns out to be.
Sounds like you gave her encouragement that she will appreciate the rest of her life to spend time with granny. Sure she will always be glad she made this choice. I feel so full of good wishes for your family!!!
PS You are entered in my address book under sheep . If the need arises again, it's nice to already have a plan. Thanks again!