Quote: I was mentioning that I might be able to come home this weekend, and she said don't bother as she will be having to practice for a wedding she is playing in next wekend. I know it is stupid, but that really hurt.
Chrome, this is NOT stupid! ANYONE would be hurt by a statement like this!!! For her to say this to you was rude! And DON'T say that you are partly to blame for it. You are not to blame for your wife's feelings-- and certainly not for her rudeness. You are NOT that powerful. You do not MAKE people feel what they feel. It was a rude and hurtful thing to say. Is she going to be preparing for the wedding nonstop for 48 hours without a break? Please do NOT blame yourself when your W is rude to you. This is like a wife who is being beaten by her husband saying "it's my fault because I got on his nerves."
Glob is not your enemy. He is a young, wounded part of you who gets triggered when you aren't getting the lovin' you want and need. Glob is hurting... like I said, he's not evil.
